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Rols, DH has almost identical issues, once low motility in 05, now that has improved and morph has dropped. I don't know the figure, the FS simply said "very few normal." Between the 2 of us, we have a wide range of issues, so at least we can identify with how one another may be feeling to a degree (theoretically).

I try to focus on the positives. the issues that we DO have are treatable, they are obstacles that can be overcome. And on the up side, there is less chance (again, in theory) of no eggs fertilising (assuming we GET eggs). I really like your analogy of there being something wrong in some way with most people. This is true. And in the grand scheme of things, if there is going to be something wrong, then this is not a bad hand to draw.

We have conceived once, and odds say that we can do so again, even if all these issues have cropped up in the meantime. In some ways, its good to know this, because it may be what has given us trouble in the past 4 years (although, morphology was not mentioned as a problem during IUI at all, only motility and even then it was written off as simply being because of a less than ideal time between ejaculations).

I have passed your post onto DH, and am sure he will appreciate it as much as I do. Thanks so much for that, I sort of didn't know how DH would feel about it, but I think once the shock wears off and we accept this is where we are and how we deal with it, we'll come through okay together. Cheers.