keen honey i am so sorry to hear that honey - next time sweets surely...

Mel - i ask the same question all the time... especially the other day when at my nans funeral i see my cousin who is two weeks behind what i would be if i hadn't m/c'd and she is smoking - why does she get to keep her baby when i did everything right and i didn't - my sister still says that she only has to look at her DH an dshe falls pg - what karmic force have i screwed with to deserve all of this..

Oh gosh so sorry for the rant - obviously feeling a little sorry for oneself...