alice-i hope things work out for your sil,be kind to yourself,youv'e been through so much....i'm thinking about going away for a few days in this tww,maybe take my mind off things a bit,due for bt on the 30th,think i'll poas before that,not on any meds this time around so there isn't any risk of false positives.Didn't have to worry about different dr doing transfer,he was lovely,told me to be positive which of course i'm finding hard too do.