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  1. #1

    Apr 2009
    central coast
    2,298

    Mildez-congratz hun you did it and all by your little self no ivf nothing you clever thing.

  2. #2
    BellyBelly Member

    Dec 2009
    Victoria
    576

    SammyP - Welcome with open arms to our little place, sorry that your journey has led you here but the gals in here are gorgeous, supportive and truly understand! I hope we can make this road a little easier for you because we 'get it!' Sorry to hear off your recent loss, and all your losses for that matter! I lost our little one at 12.4 wks last yr and still struggle daily! 12mths on and we are still unable to conceive but we are now in the hands of a fabulous FS in Melb who tested me and DH straight away - we now know DH has high abnormalitieswith his sperm, and I have endo and PCO! No other doc was even going to look into it! We start IUI in 17 days!! Happy to give you his details if you want are looking for a new proactive FS! My g/f starting seeing him b4 me after 3 miscarriages - she is now 14wks preg with twins!

    Take care of yourself ok xx

  3. #3
    Platinum Subscriber

    Apr 2010
    coastside, Vic
    2,172

    Hi ladies-Brrrr, its cold here today, hope the rest of you are somewhere warm.

    SammyP- hi and you are more than welcome to join us here, even though you probably wish you didn't have to. I spent a fair few months after my miscarriage thinking I 'O'd later than I actually did and its frustrating when you realise how many missed oppurtunities there were. Hope your stay here is short anyway.

    Mildez- you are a brilliant woman missing ivf by the skin of your teeth! Good news

    Thopes- hope you are feeling better, I think I have cold, doesn't sound as bad as your virus. Rest up!
    Hi everyone else xxx

  4. #4
    BellyBelly Member

    Dec 2009
    Victoria
    576

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    oh girls - i have a question .... DH and I were just doing the deed (TMI Sorry if you regurgitate your dinner!) and afterwards there was a decent amount of pink blood! Eik! I've never had mid cycle spotting!!! Has this happened to anyone?? Can you spot when you ovulate?? Just when I thought I knew it all.... Eik Eik!!!! Help!!

  5. #5
    Registered User

    Oct 2009
    In a House in a Street
    1,138

    Hi Ladies

    T-Hopes Can't help with your question. I've never had mid cycle spotting.

    I was taking a shower just before and I looked at my tummy and I seroiusly look 6 months UTD. Holy dooly. I hope it goes down. I took a pic of it to compare to my 6 week pregnancy pic from before my M/C and I'm sure it looks double the size. I hope there is a buba in there.

    For those on pregnyl how long does it take to ween out of your system? I'm on 1500iu.

  6. #6
    Platinum Member. 2010 RAK Recipient

    Jun 2009
    455

    Hi everyone - just a quickie sorry as I gotta eat dinner, just got in.

    Mildez!!!!!!!! Congratulations!!!!!!! Such fantastic news - woohoo!! So good to sneak this one in and glad that bub is in the right spot and growing. Big hugs to you!! x

    Porsche, the Pregnyl takes between 3-5 days to wear off apparently. Also asked about charting during my IVF and was told not to, that the negatives (for me) would out way the positives (for her, in knowing what is going on). So try not to put too much into it. Wow that's a long wait for your test but we'll keep you company. Hang in there - you'd have lots of extra fluid so that would be making your tummy puff up but nice to think it could be a sign of bub snuggling in. Here's hoping!!

    T-hopes, yes, you can bleed when you ovulate, so don't freak out, it's probably OK but maybe mention it to your FS when you see them especially as you have had the endo op recently better just to double check all is OK which I would think it would be.

    Saffy, I've been the opposite grumpy as all hell, headaches etc but like you, just getting on with it 'cause it's all part of the bigger picture. I'm also taking DHEA which definitely does not agree with me so probably the combo of that and the BCP. Ah the joys of LTTTC - NOT!!

    Sunbeam, thanks lovely, I've decided I need to close off a bit from all this stress and upset around me because I get to affected by it and I really don't need that now that I'm finally going into this long awaited cycle so trying to let it all go and just focus on myself more. Have a great time with your bestie - nothing like the love of a dear friend to help you feel better. The little angel sounds lovely x

    SammyP, I'm so sorry for all your losses I hope you find the support here you need (I'm sure you will) and you are very welcome. xx

    Hi to anyone I've missed - sorry to rush x

  7. #7
    Registered User

    Oct 2009
    In a House in a Street
    1,138

    Hi Ladies

    Thanks Alice on the info. It's all very conflicting info on the net lol. I've sacked Dr Google. I'm BBT charting more out of habbit now. I've been doing it for about 9 -10 months now so It's kind of hard to stop lol. And I guess I'm expecting to see a massive thermal shift.

    I can't wait until Saturday when I can sleep in. This TWW is the most draining so far. I don't feel any symptoms at all.