Thanks lovlies. I'm feeling a bit more positive now and just resorting to the 'well it's out of my hands and therefore not worth stressing over' thought. Realistically I will be will be so happy with 2 to transfer and 2 two freeze but trying not to set myself up for more disappointment if that's not what we get. I have decided that if this cycle does not yield a BFP I am still going on my cruise and taking a month off because I am sick of putting my life on hold. I have also decided that if we do another stim cycle I will be seriously considering and discussing using Donor daddy's partner's sperm if it tests better because I really feel donor daddy and I have given it all we can after nearly 3 years of trying and that either way the 3 of us will hopefully still be parents as planned. I am still confused as to how Donor daddy's sperm count has gotten progressively lower and lower despite the increase in supplements!?

Alice- Glad your follies are growing well. Sounds like the IVF roller coaster and hormones are really affecting you poor thing. Good job DH is a big boy and not too fazed by it.

Saffy - I'm glad AF is still not here I hope she is far far away. Sorry you are feeling like you are getting a cold again take it easy babe.