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  1. #1
    Registered User

    Apr 2007
    Melbourne
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    oops, not for a month Saffy, just from day 14 to day 24. We've been out in the sun too. I opened up DD's cubbie house and it was so full of earwigs that DH hosed it out and then I killed a redback spider in the corner.

  2. #2
    BellyBelly Member

    Dec 2009
    Victoria
    576

    Evening ladies!

    Sunbeam - sorry to hear that you didnt get the result you were expecting but great that there is 6! Praying that they stay strong! My g/f only had 5 out 21 fertilise and survive, she got preg that cycle with twins! She is now 20wks! xx

    Saffy- hope that cold hasnt hit you to much and you had a well deserved, peaceful evening last night at home xx

    ferrals - were all counting down with you! stay strong

    matthewsmum - yay for the 2ww! how are you going with everything emotionally? hope the break helps to clear your mind and your soul xx

    mildez - how are you and bubs going lovey??

    alice - so happy to hear all those follies are on track!!! Good growing girl! Good you and DH can have a giggle after a silly fight! Same with me and my DH, half the time we forget what we were even cranky about!

    toomanyshoes - welcome to this thread, im sorry to here of your difficult situation and the loss of your angels... i agree with Saffy in perhaps going to the specialist alone and taking it from there!! Good luck with your journey, we are all here to help xx

    crafty - hows your 2ww going?? Mine is draaaaaaaging!!

    AFM - all good here, chugging thru this 2ww... nothing much happening except very huge sore boobs but im guessing that from the pessaries more than anything! oh and no voice from screaming at the grand final yesterday! it was exhausting!! And we have to do it all again next week!! Aaggghh! Heart attack waiting to happen!
    And my holidays have finished, back to work tomorrow! Boo! thank god my cold is getting better!

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    Platinum Member. 2010 RAK Recipient

    Jun 2009
    455

    Sunbeam, that's terrific news - grow blasties grow!! I wonder why that 6 cell one isn't good? I would have thought that'd be the strong one...hmm. Hoping they keep growing well to day 5 and you get your 2 to transfer and 2 to freeze. I'm in two minds about transferring two (if we get that option). Did you talk to your FS about it? Curious to know what she said if you did. Good luck hon x

    SammyP, good luck with this cycle - hope you caught that egg.

    MatthewsMum, glad the Osteopath is helping - I saw one last year and she was great. Am hoping to get in to see her this week as my back is a bit out. I still do the exercises she gave me a couple of times a week and always feel so much better afterwards. I hope these next few months of TTC naturally go well for you and bring you a lovely BFP to celebrate.

    Saffy, any sign of AF? I got out in the garden too today but am soo tired don't think I was much help. Got to hang with the chooks though and that's always fun. Put some aloe vera on your burn you bad girl! It's been so long since my skin has seen the sun I glow in the dark. So embarrassing!

    T-hopes, hope you enjoyed the finals! How're you feeling? Can't wait until you can test and put us out of our suspense!

    Hi Mildez, nice to hear from you. Hope all is well with you and bubs.

    Ferrals, did you get in to have that scan in Newcastle? If I could wish away the days for you I would...must be driving you crazy. I think we'll be getting our results at the same time.

    Intheslowlane- hope that holiday does just the trick

    Crafty, how's the craft room going? That's a good TWW project if ever there was one!

    Hi Porsche, Damprye, Toomanyshoes and anyone else I've missed. Hope you are all well.

    AFM, well back down for another scan tomorrow. Hope my weekend of sleeping has given those follies time to grow. Hope things are progressing OK, always worried that something will happen to set us back. Fingers crossed x

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    Registered User

    Sep 2009
    866

    sammyp-hopefully your pain was for a good reason...saffy-thanks,hope the sunburn's not too sore...t-hopes-thanks,i hope trying something new will help...alice-be watching for your update tomorrow...afm-osteopath gave me some visualisation exercises to do,that's my homework for the week,i'm trying to put 100% into her techniques but it is quite different for me.i started crying in the middle of the session,she had me doing a visualisation exercise were i imagined matthew in a bubble floating up to the heavens.she feels i haven't let go of my grief enough to allow another pregnancy to happen but i don't understand that because ladies get pregnant after loss while still grieving the bub sometimes bubs they lost.

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    Platinum Member. 2010 RAK Recipient

    Jun 2009
    455

    MatthewsMum, grief is so different for everyone. I don't think many people in my life understand the grief I went through - continue to go through - with the loss of our baby in January. For me it was the culmination of many losses experienced over a long period of time, and that made it particularly difficult. So I guess what I'm saying is that your loss of Matthew is a very particular to you and how it affects you will be different to how it affects others. I hope the visualizations you are doing help, I find them very comforting. You'll let go of Matthew when you are ready, in your own time and in your own way, and he will always be with you and be part of your life and your family. Sometimes it's good to have others acknowledge the loss we are still experiencing because it helps us continue to understand our grief, if that makes sense. to you xx

  6. #6
    Platinum Subscriber

    Apr 2010
    coastside, Vic
    2,172

    Alice that was nice what you said to matthewsmum.

    Well...I POAS this am and got a very very faint second line.....now I'm freaking out a bit cos I don't have any real symptoms, so is this a chemical pregnancy? Its been a week and a half since the spotting, the hormones should be strong by now....I'm going to ring the clinic when they open and get a BT, not expecting anything good to come of this so please don't get excited for me cos I'm sure this isn't a sticky one-SH*T

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    2013 BellyBelly RAK Recipient.

    Apr 2009
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    Alice I hope your scan shows a record and some beautifully grown follies. Lovely advise also you give.

    Saffy I can understand your concern. Hope your HCG is much much higher then you think it is.

    Sunbeam I think the embie thats is growing to quickly can be a sign of chromosomal problems is they are too quick growing. I have heard that somewhere before. Someone correct me if I am wrong. FX they are all growing beautifully and continue to do so and you have some lovely embies to freeze and a successful t/f which gives you your sticky BFP.

    Thanks for asking about me. I think everything thing is going ok. We have had a nasty Bug going around DD was even in hospital for 3days and now DH has it and I am worried I'll get it. I hope to God I don't.

  8. #8
    Registered User

    Sep 2009
    866

    alice-thank you so much for your beautiful words....saffy-hope you don't have to wait to long for the bt results...mildez-sending no bug vibes to you