Big hug lyra.... And Joeve... And everyone.... And Thankyou to all of you for trying to remind me to think realistically. It really does help.

I think we need a big I will get there. I've just gone back a few steps finding out about the girl at work who is 14weeks.
Dont even notice it in here.... But when it is someone I actually know it hurts like hell. And on top off that I had to go out to a critical incident at work yesterday - and that is always hard.

I tell you I will never take this stuff for granted again.