Mindhugs - family can be so frustrating! Even if they don't know about the IVF they should still be able to accept that a birthday party in Bali may be too expensive for you!
Saraz - we've told as few people as possible. We ended up telling M/FIL and B/SIL about 6 months in after I got a bit too upset when SIL announced she was pg. None of my family know. Like you I don't want to be constantly updating people. I also don't want sympathy or unhelpful advice!
Aurian - welcome and good luck!
Out of time for more persies but I hope everyone is going well!
Sorry I have been missing in action, RL got in the way and I didnt receive and update that there were new messages.
trueblue ouch to the calf bitting you, I have been tearing up at the oddest things.
trubabe we have frenchie and I know those pants wont stop a male who wants to get to a female who is on heat. How cute to have puppies though. Its hard having a sick parent at a time like this. Well no time is great. My mum is quite sick to (heart) and need to see a cardiologist on Friday.
Terry fingers crossed for the natural.
Dreams into reality wow you have been very strick, there is no way I could give up my latte.
porsche I dont miss the sniffing, hope it doesnt mess you around like it does to me.
loops12 if you find a magic way to save money or a money tree please let us all know. Hope time moves fast towards your next cycle.
aurian I am fairly new too, welcome.
wantaminime, how did your results go. Sorry being new I cant help with your q's.
saraz wow you had your transfer mine is tomorrow. How cool you got to see before the transfer, I hope I get to see mine. i've told a couple of people but not sure what to do after the tww. When I had C I didnt share the news to after 12 weeks.
mindhugs GBH's to you. I really hope the little embie has stuck. Not everyone has the money to go to bali, they should be a bit more supportive.
I have my transfer tomorrow at 1120. Not sure how many have made it to day 5 will find out tomorrow.
Has anyone else felt real crampy the day before a transfer, it started this afternoon and hasnt really passed.
I haven't been around much lately - have been trying to pretend this all isn't happening I guess.
Mindhugs - good luck - when's your BT? No symptoms doesn't mean no baby - there have been so many people in the tww thread who've had none and gotten their bfp's.
Saraz - I only told my parents at first (with DS), then my bro and SIL found out, but they were cool with it. This time around is taking a lot longer and DH seems to be talking about it with a lot more people. I don't mention it to anyone because of how emotional it is - I like to pretend that all is fine, but I guess that him talking about it helps to normalise it - if that makes any sense?? What I have also found this time is that it makes pregnant people feel a bit awkward. F**k 'em though I say - if the worst I make them feel is a little bit awkward it's nothing compared to the utter jealousy I feel. Oooh, I'm sounding a bit bitter, sorry
Trishy - hope all goes well tomorrow.
Hi to everyone else - I'm so behind on where everyone is up to
gday ladies just a quick one as I am getting ready toi head to sale for a U/S nurse called yesterday with my bt results and she said that my level;s are sounding fantastic and she wans me to have the scan today instead of friday but Ihave been havin some pains like I did last time when I had a cyst I told her about it and she said we'll know today if there is one so fx'd I am hoping not the feelings keep comoing and going she said it could be just pains from being on alot stronger dose of puregon... so fingers crossed and hi ho hi ho of to sale I go... eeeep if it's a cyst we are canning this round were not going to push to make it work and we'll go see FS and maybe have to go straight IVF will let you all know jhow I go
Kaybee vent away. When I had my acupunture yesterday the lady told me she was pregnant, I had already work that out a couple of weeks ago. I think there was a bit of a pause before I said congratulations. Took a few mins for the rational side to kick in. I am surrounded by pregnant woment at work and I went to a lunch last week for someone who was retiring. One of the prego women said dont you want any more kids. I got a little grumpy but just said I am working on it. Then the women sitting next to her went on and on about women in their late 30's and 40s having kids and leaving it too late. I just said not everyone is blessed to have a rose color life like you and be a grandmother in their 40's. Bit *****y but I was over being diplimatic by then
Trueblue I have my fx'd for you hope the scan goes well
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