Yogi - thanks luv! And I know, it is really hard, especially when people insist "Christmas is all about the kids". Is there any chance of just going away - even for a few days? Close family would probably understand if you explained in private that it's too hard, and anyone else will get over it -you have to take care of yourself. I know that ivf makes it pretty difficult financially to go just about anywhere, but it would be nice if you and DH could enjoy yourselves without having to put a brave face on for anyone. Some times are harder than others and it sounds like you're going through a tough one. Can you tell people you're busy/double-booked and that you'll catch up as soon as possible, then just go and even have a nice meal (even a picnic) away from everybody. I don't know sweetie, but this whole thing really sucks. We will get each other through it. Good luck xoxo
Last edited by Kaybee; January 11th, 2011 at 06:49 PM.
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