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thread: LT TTC & Assisted Conception - November '05

  1. #127
    starbright Guest

    Thanks ladies for invited me into your post.



    You have no idea how I feel now that I can have some support. My hubby can only do so much and it does break his heart to see me in a wreck. I just needed some girls to talk too who can relate to my situation and hopefully I can do the same in return.

    In the past 6 months 2 of my closest g/fs who also have been trying for years have fallen pregnant. I have been there for them & been extremely happy for them as I would want them to be happy for me when I finally fall pregnant so I stayed positive and hopeful.

    I tell them I'm going to IVF and both have not even bothered to call me to see how I am, if I needed anything. I feel so let down and I just want to be treated the way I treated them.

    The past 4 weeks have been awful. Right from the start from using the nasal spray up until yesterday where they cancelled my transfer I have needed some girl support. I have tried to handle it all on my own but as you can see it has done me no justice.

    I am so sorry to vent but my hormones are still all over the place.. I'm happy one minute and sad the next.

    Shezabelle, I am really sorry you ended up in hospital. I can completely understand what you went through. What did your fertility specialist say about your next transfer?

    I just want to thank you all and thank God for helping me find this site!!!!

  2. #128
    Melinda Guest

    Starbright,

    Although I can't relate to what you are going through as I've not been down this path myself, I just wanted to say that all the other lovely ladies here will provide you with all the support you need. They're a great bunch. Don't ever apologise for venting about how you feel - it's a very important thing to do!!! We're all human and need a bit of support and understanding.

  3. #129
    Ex adm!n, quietly rusting....

    Feb 2004
    Melbourne
    11,171

    Aww Starbright, that's awful that your friends aren't calling you Just wait until you meet all of the other ladies in this forum. They are absolutely fantastic with supporting each other & they'll be your best friends in no time.

  4. #130
    BellyBelly Life Member

    Jan 2005
    in the valley of cuddles with mountains of smiles
    2,369

    glad you joined us Starbright ... you will find a wealth of support and information here. You have found a space to share the IVF girl talk.

    Friends just don't know what to say -so they hibernate while we brave the difficult times alone. It is not intentional just their way of coping.

    They might feel uncomfortable and not know what to say they doesn't offend so they left friendships slide. Ring them anyway and share -hey I am doing this ... if that is what you want or ring them and say how are you I have been thinking of you and wait for them to ask ...

    Acknowledge it unless to do so would fall on insensitive ears or would be painful to you.

    I have told a few friends (not family) but they rarely ask where I am up too.

    Shez - I am glad you are up and about. When will they do your FET ?

  5. #131
    BellyBelly Member

    Feb 2005
    Perth
    508

    Welcome Starbright, I think we are all very lucky to have each other in here. When & how much we want to share with people varies greatly from day to day and cycle to cycle. I find it nice to come here & speak to people in the same boat as me at the present time. There is never any judgement either.

    Shez, glad you are feeling better

    Trish, any more news on your embies

    Leisa, hope the liquid diet was ok today, hope tomorrow goes well.

    Best of luck for the TWW and take care everyone.

  6. #132
    BellyBelly Member

    May 2005
    South Australia
    209

    Morning Ladies

    I just wanted to pop in and wish everyone a great Friday 11/11 and hope your tww is going as well as mine those that are in it. All is well so far with me.

  7. #133
    cazzoom Guest

    Welcome to the thread starbright! you will find great comfort here.
    I know how tough it is not having people who really understand what you are going through to talk to.

    Chele. glad you 2WW is going great

    Mine is 7 days down 7 days to go!
    last night I started feeling not so posative and I need to break myself away from that. I need to stay posative that this will all work and that I will have a July baby.

    So frustrating!

    Cazz

  8. #134
    cazzoom Guest

    OKay I dont know if this is going to sound like a strange question or not.

    I had 2 embryos transferred.
    say if 1 takes and I am pregnant but the other one does not take would that mean you should have some bleeding or spotting from the one that didnt stick?

    I was just thinking about this. made me need to ask thequestion to see if anyone else had thought of this, or asked this question before and gotten some answers!!

    Cazz

  9. #135
    BellyBelly Life Subscriber
    Add sushee on Facebook

    Sep 2004
    Melb - where my coolness isn't seen as wierdness
    4,361

    Cazz,

    no, if you do end up being pg to a singleton, you would normally not get any spotting or loss from the other embryo. I had two embryos transferred and am expecting a singleton, and did not spot/bleed. This is not to say that should you spot/bleed that this isn't a normal pg, but as such, there is no seperate 'loss' of your other embryo.

    HTH

    love
    sushee

  10. #136
    BellyBelly Member

    May 2005
    South Australia
    209

    Cazz good question which I would never have thought of but now that you bring it up yeah I would be curious too. Glad somebody out there is thinking hey LOL.

    Have a great weekend all

  11. #137
    Melinda Guest

    Locking this thread now girls.

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