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  1. #1
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    Jul 2006
    Melbourne
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    Hi everyone,

    Porsche - I have taken your advice & got the script for Clomid so I took the first one last night. When do you officially know if you are pg? (properly pg IYKWIM?!)

    N2l - *Hugs* I get my hopes up all the time but I think it is to try to stay positive rather than pessimistic also. It's a tough gig when you are secretly hoping that this will be the automatic 'fix' to your infertility issues. I know that is how I felt once put on Clomid, then when we didn't fall pg, I thought the laparoscopy would solve the issue (well it sort of did) but now we are looking down the barrell of IUI and for me I feel like we are so close but so far - IYKWIM? Anyway, didn't want to load you with my feeling, just an insight & letting you know that you are not alone. I (we) totally get it

    Kris - Gawd I hate being at the mercy of some medical practitioner who doesn't give a damn about the emotions you are going through, just medical science results to determine what to do.....Gosh I am in a venting mood aren't I?! Anyway, it sounds like you are Oing late? I had minimal success with the OPK's too, so perhaps ditch them and tune into your body - sounds like you are doing that anyway. If you are up for it, keep DTDing you might catch that egg! I hope you can get some sort of direction soon. An u/s would be able to determine if you are about to O or have O'ed - just a thought.....

    Shan - FX for you. GL with the 'new' diet. I soooo need to get back into it. Apart form having a few social events on the next few weeks, should try to lose more prior to starting IUI......

    Mel - At first I would have assumed it was possible implantation 'bleeding' but since you mentioned no +OPK yet then it probably isn't.... I don't have spotting during my cycle, so I can't give you any advice, sorry. Best of luck catching that egg!

    Bec - Thanks so much for your support, I know I have been a truly crappy virtual friend atm, but you understand/get it & I am glad I haven't offened you & hope I haven't offended anyone else.
    I assume you are going to keep ttc in the meantime? Or are you going to take the pressure off a bit until you go back to the fs? I know how you feel about the weight being an immediate issue. My FS assumed that I had put on weight after DD, but no I actually am lighter in kg's & smaller in clothes so I know that weight is not the only factor for my secondary infertility issues.....it must be a common factor alot of the time, so that is maybe why they assume?? I understand the issues and heartache trying to lose weight. I actually think I self-sabotage sometimes but don't know why.... Anyway, you can only give it your all & if the weight doesn't budge, it doesn't budge. I read in another thread that a couple of the gals were doing IVF & used Calorie King as a guide to keep in check their food intake but also for low GI - they had PCOS. I think it was Butterfly Warrior (?) who said that she believed that the low GI helped improve her egg quality. Best of luck for this month.

    Liz - Sounds like a very promising cycle. I wondered about the trigger shot if it hurt more than the other injections. The FS nurse assured me it isn't any different but I suspected otherwise! GL catching that egg. Do you have to DTD three days in a row? That is what we were told to do after the trigger shot.... Happy anniversary too. Hope you have a great time at the Gold Coast.

    Better go, am at work and one of the managers keeps looking over at me typing away furiously! Pity I don't type so enthusiastically for work! lol

    Have a great weekend all.
    x

  2. #2
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    Jul 2009
    Melbourne
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    Afternoon lovely ladies,

    Kris, yes I am with the other ladies, a little confused how you were told that Clomid didn’t work but you ovulated on one side? It is perfectly normal to O on one side. I actually have a blocked left tube and I find that my right ovary compensates for that and ovulates more regularly than the left (only on Clomid) but at least it still works.

    N2L, so sorry you didn’t O hun, Mel is right though, at least you O’d, I’m sure it doesn’t feel that way but at least now you know what dose of Clomid you need to take and now you can concentrate on other thinks like temp taking, OPK testing and DTD. Thinking of you hun!

    Mel, sorry I have no idea what is going on with your AF, sounds a little bit strange, hopefully the OPK’s will work and you will know exactly when you are O’ing. Fantastic idea about DTD every 36 hours I think. The month that DH and I finally did conceive (after 38months of DTD every second day, cos that’s what we were told to do by everyone) we decided to DTD everyday, and whilst it was not easy I honestly believe it contributed to a BFP, so if you have the stamina (and so does your DH, it can be just as draining for them too) then I say go for it. HUP.

    Shan, Yey for O’ing, very exciting! Hey if you do happen to need the lap I highly recommend it as would plenty of other women that have graduated from this thread. So many of us have fallen PG within 3 months of the op, so fx’ed you wont need it but fx’ed that if you do then it will be your answer, IYKWIM!

    Bec, GL on your dieting hun. Totally sux that so many of you have to concentrate on dieting an TTC all at the same time, can’t be much fun. You have my full support though. Do you think you could continue to take Clomid whilst doing your diet? Or was that totally against your FS’s rules?

    Porsche, if my memory serves me correctly today is BT day? GL hun. How’s the POAS’s going? Getting any darker? Everything’s still crossed hun!

    Jules, I totally think you should keep taking Clomid (unless you find the SE’s unbearable), that’s what we did whilst waiting to start IVF, BEST decision ever.

    Liz, YIPPEE for ripper follicles, glad to hear your put the workbench to good use. FX’ed this is your month, I have a good feeling about this one for you, not sure why I just do. PS: Happy anniversary, maybe you can conceive a magical baby whilst away, made with LUUUUVE, lol sorry I can be a twat sometimes!

    Hint for anyone that is interested. I was a maniac looking for O signs, I took temps, used FF, OPK tests and even checked my cervix. For anyone interested (and not too grossed out) it can take a few months to get used to what you are feeling but I found checking my cervix very helpful, it wasn’t a guessing game in the end, I just KNEW when I was O’ing. If you’re interested I recommend googling how to do it (or let me know and I will post a link), I checked my cervix every morning in the shower, it opens when you are about to ovulate, then closed after woods.

    Sorry to those I have missed!
    Xxoo

  3. #3
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    Oct 2009
    In a House in a Street
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    Hi Ladies

    My BT is tomorrow for those who are asking. Still another day away lol. POAS is still stong but could be the pregnyl still.

    Liz - that's great news about your little eggies.

    Rhichichi - At least you'll know when to expect Af IF she desides to turn up. It's such a pain not knowing. I hate that more than anything.

    Bec - Yay for O'ing! Bring on the TWW.

  4. #4

    Jun 2010
    District Twelve
    8,425

    hi all

    Havent written for a couple of days because been too busy with stuff (work, home, DS's school production, tv viewing lol). I have only got a short time at the moment so I will have to do the persie thing later on. Good luck to everyone with your respective o'ing, POAS, bd'ing, AF'ing and, of course....waiting!!!!!

    Even though no time for persies, a special mention to PORSCHE in case i dont get a chance to come back in tonight...GOOD LUCK FOR TOMORROW!!!!!!!! I will be thinking of you with my fingers crossed! I bet you will have good news

    AFM...It turns out I may still be in the race this month. CD 33 and no AF after all (turns out my rant was a little premature ---oops--sorry!). Been feeling queasy with dull cramping/lower backache all week but still not convinced it is not pregnancy hypochondria. I am approx 12dpo so time will tell. I was thinking of testing Sunday morning. More waiting, waiting, waiting....

    take care all xxx

    n2l

  5. #5
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    Jun 2010
    Sydney
    671

    ** sneaking in **

    Good luck tomorrow Porsche, I have everything crossed for you.

    Hello to everyone else, I try and keep abreast with your updates but I feel like it isn't appropriate for me to post these days, but just know you lovely ladies are in my thoughts every single day.

    xxx

  6. #6
    Registered User

    Aug 2010
    Castle Hill, NSW
    44

    Hi All,

    Hopefully you are all as glad as I am about the fact that it's Friday afternoon! I hope you all have lots of fun things planned for the weekend?

    Firstly...
    GOOD LUCK PORSCHE!! I'll have my FX'd for you!

    N2l - That is great to hear! So glad that you are still in the race!! Maybe it is your month after all!?

    Keli - Glad you agree with me on the 36 hours and thanks for the feedback based on your experience! DH hasn't complained...yet! By cycle 3 we might be struggling a little more though! (P.S. What does HUP stand for?)

    Liz - That's great news about your eggs. GL Catching one of the little guys!!

    Jules - You said that you didn't have much luck with the OPKs. Did you just never get a result or was the line too faint all the time?

    AFM - Nothing to tell really. That weird spotting has finally took a hike mid week. Still have the occasional hot flash and my abdomen has been more achey/tender/crampy than usual, but I am thinking it's more likely "Ovulation Hypochondria"!! No doubt I will be the same during the 2WW and think that every little twinge is implantation etc.

    After some advice from the experts - I noticed a change in my CM yesterday (more CM and more watery - sorry if TMI), but to be honest I have never been all that good at using it as a signal though as I don't seem to be "normal" and I don't think I have ever had EWCM in my life!!?? Perhaps because of the PCOS?? Am I missing something or do some women not have EWCM?

  7. #7
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    Jul 2006
    Melbourne
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    Hi all,

    GL for tomorrow Porsche - hope to see a very exciting post from you. GL x

    Keli - I have tried checking my cervix & maybe I just am not doing it properly but I couldn't tell if it were opened or closed, high or low etc... can you post that link?

    n2l - OMG, GL I hope your rant was all for nothing, GL

    Mel - Prior to Clomid definately nothing on OPK's no feint line or anything - but probably due to no O and when on Clomid - BT confirmed O but the test line was never the same colour or darker (or which ever one is suppose to be the darker). So, I just don't bother to use them anymore, too stressful for me. In relation to your EWCM Q, I have very little, if any & none at all on Clomid. Be aware that Clomid is notorious for drying up CM. You can try taking Robitussin cough medicine ( no letters at the end) or pre-seed which is sperm friendly lube. You can buy it online at Lullaby Conceptions and some chemists stock it.

  8. #8
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    Aug 2010
    Castle Hill, NSW
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    Thanks Jules!! That makes me feel so much better! I am beginning to think that I might be the same with the OPKs too. If I don't eventually get a clear OPK+ result this month and AF arrives (or by some miracle a BFP - FX) then I won't use them again as it's just another thing for me to agonize over!! IYKWIM?

  9. #9
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    Jul 2006
    Melbourne
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    Thanks Jules!! That makes me feel so much better! I am beginning to think that I might be the same with the OPKs too. If I don't eventually get a clear OPK+ result this month and AF arrives (or by some miracle a BFP - FX) then I won't use them again as it's just another thing for me to agonize over!! IYKWIM?
    So totally know what you mean. I used to temp too & that was even more agonising! lol Best of luck.

  10. #10
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    Oct 2009
    In a House in a Street
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    Hi Ladies

    Firstly I want to thank you ladies for thinking of me. I really do appreciate it. Had a BT this morning and I've been sitting on tender hooks for the last hour and a half. I did 2 POAS this morning a Lullaby Conceptions and a FR. The test line on the FR came up before the control line did. And really dark and I've been doing the lullaby ones for 3 days now and they have gotten darker. But there is always the possibility of that being the Pregnyl.

    Anyway BT results don't lie and my BETA came back at 441. Which is a SCREAMING BFP!!!!!!!

    No I just have to get to 10 weeks before I feel comfortable.

  11. #11
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    Apr 2010
    VIC
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    Woohoo Porsche. That is wonderful news hun. I am so very excited for you. I am absolutely ecstatic.

    All the best with it all. I look forward to hearing your progress reports. That is so great.
    Last edited by Hope!; August 28th, 2010 at 10:02 AM.

  12. #12
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    Jul 2006
    Melbourne
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    Hi Ladies

    Firstly I want to thank you ladies for thinking of me. I really do appreciate it. Had a BT this morning and I've been sitting on tender hooks for the last hour and a half. I did 2 POAS this morning a Lullaby Conceptions and a FR. The test line on the FR came up before the control line did. And really dark and I've been doing the lullaby ones for 3 days now and they have gotten darker. But there is always the possibility of that being the Pregnyl.

    Anyway BT results don't lie and my BETA came back at 441. Which is a SCREAMING BFP!!!!!!!

    No I just have to get to 10 weeks before I feel comfortable.
    Yay! CONGRATULATIONS Porsche. Are those numbers really high?! Or is it just from the hormones & not what that they pump into you? Sending you tons of sticky vibes & wishing you a very healthy 9 mths