N2L - It is totally Effed!!! Only you will know when your done. Its so hard at our age as time is definately against us. We did look at donar eggs and it was expensive but not over $20K. Look up Flinders Medical Centre in Adelaide. What about PGD? Andie would be able to vouch for PGD. Or you could be like me and just have tough embies that cant get out the shell. They say women older than 37 and women with PCOS have hard shells. Maybe try assisted hatching with a pipelle. Sorry if this post is inappropriate at this time It just sounded like your not quite ready to give up yet. It must be so hard and crap that you have waited the 4 months, done all the hard work, paid all the extra $$$ and you got one emby. And your right, it is definately meant to be your turn.

Myturn - Again Effed! And I dont see why your FS should not try different things just because your too young. It should go by how many cycles you have been through. And you have done more than enough to qualify.

I am like Joeve. I guess AC LTTTC know exactly how you are both feeling. Its a very scary place and one neither of you should be in. It sucks