Thanks girls your support and advice means a lot to me !

Have had a big chat and DH agrees we should go for the initial consultation and see what our options are if any, IVF will be a definate no as we do not have the funds for that but maybe clomid or IUI depending on what they say so trying to stay positive until next Thursday and have an open mind and just see what he has to say.

Well DTD again this morning so should be covered now as today is the big O day and had sharp pains in my right side 6am this morning before doing the deed so hopefully the spem gets to meet the egg if there is one there of course !!! anyhow gave it our best shot so now the waiting begins .

Alice thanks so much for your pep talk about your SIL I guess at our age people don't really understand why we even trying anymore but some of us just need to fill the gap so to speak one last time ! I hope your apt is not too far ahead of you and then maybe we can be in the other forum together with growing bellies !!!

Ferrals how you doing ? its gonna be a long long TWW and I have an apt 8days past ovulation so too damn eary to test dam !