Leis - wow big op but good to know you are in such safe hands. I would have pml at them had I been told a couple of panadol for pain management!!! I love your attitude about what direction you are headed. Since I have joined these boards I have found what you have to say to really have given me a bit of stength back that I thought I had lost. Thanks for that.

Shan - I am in the 2ww with you hun. I am feeling the most confident about this month I have felt in a very long time. I know (well I think) we got some bding in around the right time and both our starsigms on a few seperate occassions have said a new arrival around October?? Got to hang on to something don't you!!!!!!

Cherie - My dh was tested a few years ago and came back with a result of low sperm count, no solutions offered (just the do you want the ivf referal now). When I switched gynos early last year he wanted dh tested again and sure enough the test results came back all normal. When it comes to the whole ttc journey I have learnt that 2nd, 3rd and 4th opinions don't hurt.