Hi Keli - Nah its cool. Turns out I'm not the only one with a problem. My hubby has a very low count and its not due to anything we can help. Its genetic.

Had our first appt with ivf specialist today - he was very positive so that was reassuring. We both have to do a series of blood tests and scans. One of the blood tests is going to cost 800 do you believe!! Its to test my husbands genetic makeup. Its amazing the stuff they can do. Go back next year to begin process.

Tammara - Good luck!! I hope it works out for you, you are very lucky that you have such a wonderful cousin.

Jess - good luck with your month off!