Oh dear .. just saw your posting countryblue.. how heartbraking.. I do feel for you.. look after yourself... its awful to have but doesn't necessarily mean it's over yet.. just makes the rest of the wait that much more tortuous for you.. comfort eat or do whatever you need to to get yourself through it.... take good care of yourself and let us know how you are getting on. massive 's

Just noticed yours too RustyBeth.. we're all so desperate to be mums and for those little embryons to stay with us.. I have to say I found the obssessing yesterday very tiring, but helpful in a strange way!!!.. Today I feel a bit calmer, despite the continuing spiral.. and the heat is on as everyone posted recently seems to be right on the edge of those imperative results.. so much stress.. sending calm, calm, calm to everyone... it won't be long now.. rest and calm to all....