Thanks for all your suggestions ladies - I'm adding them all into my 'book', and will change what I have control over, until he's ready to help out. Food and exercise I can look after, even the Royal Jelly stuff. It's a start anyway
Time to crush up the Menevit and sprinkle it on his cereal! JK.

I'm so sorry you guys are dealing with so much stress. It sounds like you're going through a lot right now. I hope you can come through it all soon.