I was just wondering if girls in this forum have told friends &/or family they are going through fertility treatment. We conceived #1 through IVF and only told family and maybe 1 or 2 friends. I didn't want it widely known purely for the added stress of people asking me how it's going and was it successful etc, etc. When it was successful (much to our surprise) my DH didn't think it was anyone's business so we never mentioned it. Now it looks like we'll be going down the same path later this year and I want to fess up about treatment with our friends as I don't think it's something we should be ashamed of. But I feel like I've lied about the first pregnancy and wonder if our close friends will be hurt that we didn't share it with them.

Maybe I'm looking into it too much and no-one really gives a toss anyway. So any thoughts would be appreciated.