Hey Jules,

DH and I are keeping it from our families because somehow it just makes it all seem more stressful if I have the expectations of my family to worry about, as well as everything else. Also, my parents have been DYING for grandchildren for ages and I would hate for them to get their hopes up only to have them dashed if it doesn't work.

Having said that, I am a bit sad that we have decided not to tell them, because sometimes it would be good to have my Mum's shoulder to cry on when the going gets tough. But I know it would break her heart also to see me go through all this and possibly come out the other end without a baby. So, for me, it's easier just to tough it out myself.

It's a tough decision to make eh?

Vicki