Jules,
I told work a while ago when we first found out that we had probs and were needing to have tests etc tha we had some medical probs...we hope to start IVF early next year and I'm planning to tell my boss. I think he will be ok, but I know it is going to be a hard conversation. I'm in a good team- we are pretty close and know about each others families - so my prob is if to tell them as well as they are going to ask questions about why I'm in and out so much. I dont know what DH is going to do - prob after our appointments to set everything up we will have to work out what he is going to do. For us it is a bit harder as we have to travel 3 hrs to get to the IVF clinic we are using.

As for telling family DH's know - but really have not been that supportive and steer clear of the topic. If I instigated the topic they would prob talk about it but they wont bring it up. I have not told my parents - my dad has just had a baby with his new wife and I really dont think he would know what to say. My mum is a drama queen and would make it all about her! Close friends know, and they have been good so far and we will prob tell them when we start treatment as we will have to stay with at least one set when we do treatment.

Good luck