I so hear the being sick and tired of the positive comments. I know I've withdrawn from a lot of people I use to talk to about cycles. It just gets hard to say 'another unsuccessful cycle' and hearing 'oh well, always next time' when I'm in a state of grief. It seems they just don't get it, but most of the people I use to talk to haven't needed IVF.

Snugglebean I like your suggestion of "that's an interesting comment. What makes you say that". I so wish I had the courage to say that last week when people at work were saying how after an IVF pregnancy "it's just so common for people to get pregnant without assistance. It happens all the time". Not in my experience. Sorry Possums for my little vent in your thread.

Please know you are not alone.