Shades, I am really wishing you'd get a new clinic. I don't think these people are taking good enough care of you. You shouldn't have to go through this treatment with anybody whose manner you don't like.

Our IVF FS was a cold fish - I cried my eyes out one time and wished we'd never have to see him again. Then two of our embryos died and our last transfer was unsuccessful, and we didn't have to see him again. Spooky.

My point is, I reckon you need women to look after you. Not men. I've found our midwives so much more caring than the male doctors we've dealt with.

It's your body, your very expensive donor, and your future baby. Don't let those folks manhandle you lovely.

:-)
OP.