I'm glad you understand, Michelle. The fact that I'm accepting today, does not necessarily mean I will be accepting tomorrow... but I think that's the place we all need to aim for. It's a place of peace and not fighting with the world, but simply allowing yourself to bend rather than break.

It's times like this I have to remind myself of what my names mean - this is where the screen name Butterfly Warrior came from, and in so many ways it fits.

BW