I'm glad to have found this discussion, Sheree I was going to email you.

DD is now 4 & starting kindy this year, 2 full days.
DH & I currently both work part time, sharing care 2 days for me, 1 for DH, 1 for nanna & 2 kindy days.

Today I got offered a manager role but it would mean I would have to up my work from 3 days to 4 days a week this year & then full time next year. But can start later so I can drop off DD at school.

The promotion is what I want but not sure if I want it now. I guess for me the thing is that I've had the time at home with DD, it might be harder for me to give it up.
DH has said he will support me whatever I choose, I guess he looks at more money firstly, then that he will work less. He does physical work so I can understand that one.
I told him I don't want to be coming home and having to do stuff. But how long will it last.

I think it may be easier in my case because DD is older & pretty much independent. And also because it's kinda gradual.

Sooo, guess I've not really got a question, or a point of view, I think I'm just rambling with what's in my mind. I've got a week to let my boss know what I want to do.