Hi Magic and Barley
Thanks for the responses - I am amazed how many variations on this story that I come across - good ones, bad ones, and ones in between. I have a client who is constantly being gossiped about by the mothers at his DD's school because they are convinced he is having an affair with his DD's friend's mum.
Magic, I tried your profile but you have not private email but mine should if you'd like to email me.
Do either of you think that either your DH or uncle was particularly "maternal" before taking on the role of is it something they developed?