I'm accepting the management position. It is coming up in July so I don't have to start 4 days until then, though I am doing extra work at the moment because it is busy.

I am a bit of a controller at home & I'm realising that I have to let go a bit & let DH do more & be happy with it. Our work times compliment each other & we will work on him reducing his hours so he can be at home.

I feel it can work, I also don't think I shouldn't do what I want to just cause I'm a woman & have babies. DH is supporting me too. He is good around the house & loves being with DD. And we both understand that we may not 'get ahead' in these early years, but there's a lot of time left for that. Quality of life is what's important to us.

Baby crazy, it's a shame when you are faced with a decision like that, it's a kind of limbo land for you. Hoping it works out.