Thanks heaps Lucy reading about your experience has helped me to realise that I am not the only one that has been in this situation.

Also your experience in the area and what you have written is fab!

This place is definatley not family friendly lol.

I hate also having such a councois (sp?) and wanting to do the ring thing, why am I like that lol

I really do need to leave my options open for the next 12 month.

I am still going to talk about this with hubbie and family and then let him know soon.

Thanks heaps

Bec