ALR,
Oh sweetie... I am so sorry to hear that you are stuck in limbo at the moment.
I will tell you one thing though, the internet is the worst thing when you find out there could be something wrong!!! It is a great tool for info any other time.

The thing I always tried to tell myself is that most of the things on the net were worst case scenarios.

It sucks that you have so long to wait to get some answers. I have everything crossed for you that things will be perfect and in a few more months, a perfectly healthy and beautiful baby will have you for his/her Mummy.
You're in my heart and thoughts