Hi Kristi, Kayla & KAr
Thank you so much for your time in responding- you make it sound so easy and; if only i could be as strong and brave as you. I will seek advice from a GP (don't really have a reg gP-hard to find here on the coast). The problem is that I don't even want to admit to anyone that im pg and i certainly dont want anyone knowing except for the Gp...only to find out yesterday that my partner told one of our clients- he is ecstatic and im totally miserable. and i panic that my negativity will cause him to become violent to himself...i feel trapped and ashamed of my predicament and the emotions and attitudes i am feeling toward the whole thing. Thank you again and good luck to each of you- you sound like amazing women!

Kind regards
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Hi diddles, sending to you!! Maybe once people know you will feel better, alot of the anxiety could be because you are worried what everyone is going to think, there are MANY women your age having children! In this day and age the majority of the mothers (from what I have noted) are either early 20's or late 30's/early 40's, due to careers in between these ages. If you talk to a GP they may know of some support groups in your area of women going through similar things...

Good luck!!!!!!!!! sending my to you and family