DG thanks I feel better finally. It took 3 days in hospital and another 3 at home to feel kinda normal.

Lilydust I should probable look into a Doula, I havent even really thought about it. To be honest I dont think much at all lately except hoping I dont spew.

Melania I was really sick and probable had HG first time round too, but this time is/was worse. If you have family support use it as much as possible. I also put my daughter in creche a few days when as I just couldnt move from the bed or bathroom. I agree make sure you are medicated early on. I did make sure of this, this time. But I had to play around with the dose of my meds a bit. My other bit of advice is dont play the hero like I do sometimes. If you arent holding water down, make sure you get hydrated. The couple of times I got really bad was when I tried to solider on.

BB glad to hear you have seen some light at the end of the tunnel.