Sandie ~ I am really sorry about your miscarriage, how are you feeling? I thought I would be stopping myself from ending up with 10 children too but you know I really bowed to pressure from my mum and others around me because they wanted me to have the TL done. I got it done and I regret it because I do want those 10 kids!!! Maybe not 10 but I would love to have another 3. It is really unfortunate that the reversals cost so much. It seems stupid to me, as the government helps pay for some IVF treatments, which would cost them alot more than if they were to cover some of the cost for a TR. I know even after a TR some women need to have IVF anyway so why make the TR so expensive, those women who do need to have IVF are out of pocket so much more. My story isn't quite the same as yours but I understand where you are coming from. My Ob made things seem rosy but he didn't tell me how much pain and stress you go through with IVF. I have seen my cousin going through it and I would not want to do it myself. DH and I are going to get a personal loan to pay for my TR, I am sure alot of poeple would have to because lets face it who has 8 or 9 grand just laying around. Are you going to try again with IVF or just go straight to the TR?