Hi steph, I don't think my husband and myself will go through IVf again, we are just going for the TR. Just like you we to are looking at a personal loan to help us out, but first were going to buy our house wich hopefully won't be to far away. I wonder if we get enough people together we could put something forward to change the politics of Tubal Ligations and reversals. I personally do not see why there is so much controversy to reversing it in the first place, isn't it just a subtle way of taking our rights as women away? I don't mind paying for the op to be honest but for an operation that is done via a laprascope, that probably takes about 15 minutes if that! where is the money going to??? An anesthatist bill will probably be a few hundred but to pay someone 8 grand for a 15 minute job is just ludacrist!. I'm determined to look into this.