Hi Darl,
God our situations are so alike. I too, feel the same that you did. All of what you said, is me all over. Including the part about your hubby. My hubby was exactly the same in the beginning. Now he is all for it and is really starting to get into it.
When I had my ligation done about 7 years ago, I was pushed into it by both my now ex-husband and by my family.
I too, like you, felt like part of me is missing, that what makes me a women, my god given right as a female, was taken away.
As my hubby now says, i wasn't born with the clips, so it just isn't natural for them to be there.
I will certainly have my fingers crossed for you in a couple of weeks when you go to have the dye test done. I will be thinking of you and be here for you...
Please don't feel that you ramble about this stuff either darl. (I think I do the same).
I love to find out about as much about all of this as I can. I can't thank you enough for sharing your story with me and many others too.
Sometimes I think that this has consumed my whole life and i can't think of anything else. I have even already bought a baby name book. CRAZY HEY!!!
I can't figure out if it is just wishful thinking, or i have convinced myself it will work. Or maybe it was my hubby and his positive outlook on everything, saying that we both have had kids before with our previous partners so why couldn't we have one together. Plus, i not all that long ago had my taro cards done and they said it was there in the cards. The cards showed a baby, and a girl at that. My life long dream to have a girl. If I was to have a boy i would be over the moon, that goes without saying, but a girl would just top it all off nicely.
Anyway, (Ramble, ramble, ramble). My turn i guess. Hahahaha
Gonna get out of here. Work again tomorrow, but got the day off on Sunday.
Take care darl, talk again real soon for sure.
P.S. By the way, call me Charmaine. "Framaine" comes from both myself and my husband Frank.......