Hi Girls......well sh and i had the best night out last night.......we went to the Hoggs Breath Cafe and it was just amazing......my dd 13 & dd 8 stayed at their grandparents house and had such a brilliant time.....dd 8 did not want to come home.....the other ds did their own thing since they are old enough to take of themselves.......we did however come home to dh ex starting shiat again, but now she has gone to a whole new level and is now publicly on the net naming my in-laws and making claims that she is speaking and meeting with them......they can't stand her and the air that she breathes......i made dh ring them for a second time tonight to ask them if the snagglepuss in deed has been speaking with them, and they were horrified beyond belief to find out what she has been saying about us and our kids and now them.....they now want us to take legal action against her......so a great weekend turned into a shiat weekend.....so i am now sitting here with my wine and surfing around and listening to music....sorry for venting girls, it just helps to let it out with my girls....take care...kiya