Sorry girls for not being on......it has been drama after drama here......had a phone call on Friday telling me that my DS has to go to the Mater on Monday at 8am to have an MRI......nice for letting me know sooner....then our commodore's fuel pump died and i have been running dh everyone in my car and chewing through the petrol....i will try to get on more, i promise....lol....kiya
Well im havn a slack Sunday in bed hehe.
Not much going on my end,besides the mood swings im still having.My DD and her DP almost got kicked out of my house yesterday for being messy,i just get sick of them i mean they dont pay me any rent/bourd yet there messy suckers and they dont like helping me out to pic my son up every now and then from work GRRR i will be glad to see them in there own house.Well not long and its there wedding then our holiday then once they come back there going to be house hunting.My hubby still thinks im picking on him,i do tend to be like this with my pregnancies so he should just get over it dont ya reckon?hehe
So besides being moody im feeling great getting bigger each day i love my round belly and im feeling them flutter every now an then.
Hi Nicnic5....Thanks,yeh i went to Concept here in Perth i had an old fart of a doc that is dead against transfering 2 but i had the last laugh with him coz i came up with some white lies and he felt sorry for me and transfered my last 2 embies and thankgoodness he did.He was mad as hell when he seen twins,but who cares if thats what it took to get pregnant he should be happy for me not mad the old bugger.How was the OP?was it very painful?im still thinking of going down that track once my bubs are born just coz IVF costs so much and if im blessed again why not! I hope you have luck soon.
Hi Kiya.....Babe im sorry your going through such a rough time i really dont know what else could go wrong hey.Im thinking 2010 is going to be a better year for you XX
Hi Mumof6.....Hows the shifting hehe,i guess you have lots of little helpers.
Hi Mummy25....Hehe the coffee table,oh well you got to give it to hubby for trying.My hubby use to be the same he would love good sammys and getting a bargin but he has smartend up and only wants the "best"
Well not long got home from taking DS to have his MRI done......i have been on the go since 4.30am and i am so amazed that i managed to drive the car home from the station......we don't know the results yet, but 2 dr's went in while he was in there and were looking over his scans while it was being done.......he was in there for longer than normal and because he has been up since 4.30 as well he fell asleep in the machine...lol.......well i am goign to have a cuppa and some toast with marmalade and then might go and have a sleep.....kiya
Well im still alive after the big move. Havent done much at the new place but the old place is all done and clean thank god. AF has finally left the building. So now I just wait till monday and see what the results are.
Mummy25... so when do you get the results?? I had to ahve those forms filled out too over a few weeks. My son also had to see a phyc and all up it took about 6mths of testing. Some doctors these days are very quick to hand you a bottle of pills and not do all the right tests.
Kiya: I hope everything goes well with your son and that the results are good news..
Mumofsix: I am at my witts end with him and his brother (who is worse than him) but they have to go through the right channels first which I understand.
He seems like a good doctor (Australian) and wants the school's opinion first on how they find him (which they struggle also).
He is very demanding, winges, does not listen, argues, has a high pitched scream when he does not get his way, hits everyone, and talks non stop even if you ask him to be quiet its like you cant turn the power switch to off, he does not consentrate, but will sit for hours on the playstation without a problem (unless someone distracts him and then he goes right off)
my other son aged 7 bounces off walls, he has an endless supply of energy, and laughs at everything you say (even if I am cross) - he is delayed too which does not help...
so we will see what they say and hopefully they will do whats right for the boys.
I dont want to medicate my boys but as a mum who has been going through this for 3 years now give or take I think its time I had them both investigated and medicated only if they feel it is needed.
I dont want them to suffer and right now they are with friends, school, home, everyone is stressed including df who has to quit his job as I cant manage with them like this I going bonkers (though is not just there behaviour why he wants to stop home its everything, he feels we failed our kids with the family member abusing them and we both feel if we are both home then there is less likely chance that anyone will have a chance to hurt them again)...
I can't believe how hard this is becomming to just log on GRRRRR
nic, yeh i am in townsville. still a lot cheaper for me to travel all the way to sydney to do the ivf-crazy huh.... when is your op?
mummy25 yes i totally agree, he has given with one hand but will definately have the other hand stretched open waiting for the payment back and plus interest.. just look at the cost of getting your drivers licence renewed... I paid $71.. and 5 years ago it was only $50 sure everything is going up... just have a look at groceries... its becomming unbearable
mumofsix, glad your finished moving... happy for you hang in the... jumping in with both feet remember
kiya, not long now then if you are going in july/august....
Luvchildren, I had my op 3wks ago. AF due this weekend then i go next week for 1 more test ( the one where they insert the dye into my uterus and tubes.) and as long as there is no blockages then we get the all clear to start trying. When will you be doing the ivf? How long do you have to come down for to do it?
Dearmum. loved the ultrasound pics! How cute. We had 2 transfered with each of our cycles and would have loved twins..The op itself was ok. I had keyhole, and it was meant to take 2 hrs, but where my clamps were it was uneven so the dr had to do alot of clever handy work to make them fit back together. It took him 3hr45min (and had to cancel his next surgery.) but he has given me a 85% chance of success. The only problem i had was a few hours after, no one told me about "referred pain" My tummy was really stiff, but i had unbelievable pain in my right shoulder. I ended up in a diff hospital the next day because i couldnt move my whole right shoulder/arm/chest. It was horrible. It lasted for 3 days and until it stopped i didnt even notice my tummy. Its been 3wks now and its all fine. I have 6 scars that are all about 2-3cm long. Cant wait for this last test to hopefully come back clear so we can start trying. The gd news is that while they did the op, they did biopsies and checked everything they possibly could and it all came back excellent. So fingers crossed Are you going to find out what your having? If you dont mind me asking, i take it you were also quite young when you had your first baby. ( its a compliment, you look young in your pic.lol)
HI all I hope everyone is well....
well The ugly coffee table sold on ebay for $26.00 LOL (DF paid $40), well its gone now and out of my house PHEWWW....
Im very tired today, Could not sleep so I sat up for 3 hours and played online "uno" on facebook...
I have met people from all over the world, and you can chat to them while you play...
My df keeps changing his mind about IVF so I really dont know where I stand, maybe I may have to have a tubal reversal and that will have to wait a year as I dont have $8000 to pay for it....
I wish he would make up his mind...
He is not sure he wants more kids and thinks 5 is enough....
I wont rest untill I have one more....
Luvchildren: I agree with everything going up in prices, my weekly shopping bill is $250-$300, my electricity between $600 and $1000 a quarter (usually $600 but the last one $900- Ouch.)
petrol costs me $80 a week (I have a diesel van) $100 a week to repay the loan for it.
morgage $450 week.
I have 2 school camps to pay for (1)@$300 (1)@$250.
we have a bar on the home phone and only recieve incomming calls as we could not afford $100 a month to pay for it..
I have to use my mobile to ring everyone and it drops out on me or they say "ARe you there? I cant hear you"....
winning the lottery would be nice but i cant afford a ticket LOL....
I used to shop with $100 a week and now that only buys fruit and veg and maybe bread and milk....
mummy25.....i can totally hear where you are coming from.....everything just seems to be going up and up, but the wages don't go up and up to cover the cost of living.....well i have had a very busy week with taking my son to his MRI earlier in the week then had a phone call Wednesday morning to take my daughter into hospital yesterday for surgery on her mouth and her bad infection, and now she is home resting up.....last week with all the floods up here, dh car got caught in a flash flood on his way home, and killed our car, and cost us hundreds to repair it.....tonight we are heading down to Brisbane to the Hoggs Breath for a birthdy party for dh's best mates birthday......so i am goign to enjoy a few hours of not havign to think about anything......kiya
hi everyone how are you? sorry i havent been on had a problem with internet changed over to adsl2 so hopefully should be working faster. can agree with everything going up we now have 2 cars that need fixing atleast one is going. well the bf is back and fully moved in as for the ivf i think we are starting that still around august.
angela
welcome back katt.....hope the internet starts behaving itself and you can come back on more :-)......we are still doing our IVF, but like dh said yesterday while we were int he waiting room during my dd surgery, we need to get past everything at the moment and get ourselves on track, then we can start back on our journey with IVF.....this all came from him and i agreed.....at the moment the rest of the family and things associated with that come first then i will be able to start.....kiya
Mummy25.....Yeh Concept here in Perth would be the cheapest it cost me $2500 for a cycle,i like them coz you dont need to come up with the funds before starting.I still have IVF bills from my 3 cycles costing me around $4000,just gota put them off until after my holiday.
Mumof6.....Babe hows things your end? have you settled in yet?
Kiya.....Oh boy with all your family problems i totally agree with your DH IVF can wait there are more important things to settle first HUGS.Babe enjoy your night out ok you deserve this.
Katt....Dont worry August is only a few months away,time does fly.I will look forward to your cycle.
Luv.....Hows things?
Nicnic....Sounds like your doc done a good job,i hope you have success soon.
Over here we dont have alot of docs that do the TR i only know one doc and he cuts you open so its scary,and the cost is around $4000 so thats why i went with IVF it was cheaper and no cutting involved.Hehe yeh i got married very young at 16 in Singapore and had my first boy at 17 he will be 20 soon how sad that time goes to fast.
Are you on facebook? if you are look me up im Jodie Othman
Well ladies i had my first OB appt at my local hospital and boy i reckon going public is better,they took my UTI serious and now im on Antibiotics for the rest of my pregnancy.Also because i lost Shaheed at 20 weeks they are a bit worried and have ordered 3 X scans for 18/20/22 weeks just to make sure everything is looking ok and nothing is opening.They also said that i must have lost him due to the infection and not my cervix opening as i have had 4 healthy pregnancies before that.I feel alot better in there hands.That hospital is also the only one in WA that accepts premmies so if something was to happen they have my records atleast.My next scan will be the 22nd of June i will be 18 weeks,i cant wait for that scan coz im going to find out there sex yayyy.
Well we have 4 weeks until its DD wedding,and our holiday yet we have no money EEK.Im hoping to win lotto before then hehe if i buy a ticket.Guys if i do win i will fly you all over here so we can have a great weekend
Well i better be going to many things to do and no energy to do them hehe.
mummy25, i hear you.. its just money money money.....
dearmum, glad to hear that things are going well and i am looking forward to knowing.... hope your sharing with us.....
nicnic, sounds successful. if you had the clamps its usually a higher success rate... i had the hystosalpingogram (i had so many, I learnt the word lol) they are a little uncomfortable but you live out of them. I hope its successful for you
katt, welcome back. don't worry belly has been down for the last couple of days and that makes me bonkas.....
mumofsix, hey were are you....
Hello Ladies.
Dearmum, I am on facebook, or more accurately my husband uses my facebook acc for his personal use on mobwars and the other games. next time im on i will look you up.I was 15 when i had my first, and i cant believe he will be 15 in 2wks. Time goes too quick. How do all your kids feel about you having the twins? Were they all happy for you to be starting over?
mummy25, i dont know if its any help or not, but , i had my T/R 3wks ago with dr lok and it didnt cost me $8000. RPA hospital does 10 a year where you dont have to pay for the operating theatre.( because its a teaching hospital.) Dr lok was $3000( $750 back from medicare) $300 for hospital room for the day, and usually $500-$800 for the anethiesist ( $200 back from medicare.) My anethiestist bill was $1500 but i had complications and was under for twice the length of time as it normally takes. I dont know if its too far for you to travel, but it is defineatly cheaper than some of the others.
kiya, I know we havnt spoken before but i just wanted to let you know im thinking of you and your family. it certainly sounds like you all have alot going on, Fingers crossed it all gets sorted pretty soon.
Have a good weekend everyone
NIC
So if I go to the rpa I can get it totally free????
Wow I might look into that.
Its in sydney yeah????
You all might see me on tv (laughs) RPA hehehehe...
Hi Girls......well sh and i had the best night out last night.......we went to the Hoggs Breath Cafe and it was just amazing......my dd 13 & dd 8 stayed at their grandparents house and had such a brilliant time.....dd 8 did not want to come home.....the other ds did their own thing since they are old enough to take of themselves.......we did however come home to dh ex starting shiat again, but now she has gone to a whole new level and is now publicly on the net naming my in-laws and making claims that she is speaking and meeting with them......they can't stand her and the air that she breathes......i made dh ring them for a second time tonight to ask them if the snagglepuss in deed has been speaking with them, and they were horrified beyond belief to find out what she has been saying about us and our kids and now them.....they now want us to take legal action against her......so a great weekend turned into a shiat weekend.....so i am now sitting here with my wine and surfing around and listening to music....sorry for venting girls, it just helps to let it out with my girls....take care...kiya
Are you going to find out what your having? If you dont mind me asking, i take it you were also quite young when you had your first baby. ( its a compliment, you look young in your pic.lol)
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