Kiya: I hope everything goes well with your son and that the results are good news..

Mumofsix: I am at my witts end with him and his brother (who is worse than him) but they have to go through the right channels first which I understand.
He seems like a good doctor (Australian) and wants the school's opinion first on how they find him (which they struggle also).
He is very demanding, winges, does not listen, argues, has a high pitched scream when he does not get his way, hits everyone, and talks non stop even if you ask him to be quiet its like you cant turn the power switch to off, he does not consentrate, but will sit for hours on the playstation without a problem (unless someone distracts him and then he goes right off)
my other son aged 7 bounces off walls, he has an endless supply of energy, and laughs at everything you say (even if I am cross) - he is delayed too which does not help...
so we will see what they say and hopefully they will do whats right for the boys.
I dont want to medicate my boys but as a mum who has been going through this for 3 years now give or take I think its time I had them both investigated and medicated only if they feel it is needed.
I dont want them to suffer and right now they are with friends, school, home, everyone is stressed including df who has to quit his job as I cant manage with them like this I going bonkers (though is not just there behaviour why he wants to stop home its everything, he feels we failed our kids with the family member abusing them and we both feel if we are both home then there is less likely chance that anyone will have a chance to hurt them again)...