Tubal Reversals #10

**crazymum2** · September 13th, 2007, 09:23 PM

Ray, I hope that everything will work out for you and I am glad that they are looking after you properly.

Onemore, I do not think that we have met and it is nice meeting you too.

Dea, hope that you find out what is going on. I hope that it will all settle down.

Storm, if any of my kids have it they will have to give blood regularly to get rid of the excess iron and have regular blood test.

Ang

**mrsjac** · September 14th, 2007, 07:43 AM

yeah i have a 28day cycle and it was only one day off. anyway what's the good news maz? can't wait to hear it.

**onemore** · September 15th, 2007, 10:00 AM

Hi ladies, hope this finds you all well.
Just wanted to let you know that I have decided not to go with IVF.
DH and I just havn`t been getting along very well since we got the bad news last month, always fighting. So I have thought really hard and decided that I need my husband more than I need another child. We already have 2 beautiful boys and that is more than a lot of people have. Who knows what will happen later down the track, as hard as it is to understand I do believe that every thing happens for a reason and maybe the time just isn`t right for us yet.
I want to thank you all for your help througout this journey and I will pop back in regularly to check up on you all.
Kristy xxx

**crazymum2** · September 16th, 2007, 02:06 PM

Kristy, I can understand what you are saying. I hope that you and your husband can work out your problems.

Take Care
Ang

framaine · September 16th, 2007, 05:56 PM

Hi everyone,
Hope you are all well.
Just a quick question for you all.
In 2 weeks i'm off to melbourne for my first appointment about a reversal at the royal women's hospital.
I was able to get a copy of my post op report from when i had the tl done. It does say where on the tubes the clips were put, but it doesn't say how long the tubes are. Does anyone know if this will make a difference??
I thought that info was supposed to be in the report and that is what they would be looking for when i go for the appointment.
Any advise would be great.
Take care everyone,
framaine xoxoxo

**storm** · September 16th, 2007, 06:20 PM

When I had my TR done, I was told before hand that I would just have a lap. done to check my tubes, length & condition, then if they were ok I would then he would proceed with the reversal, perhaps this is standard?? Maybe you should ask, I got my copy of the post op too & it never mentioned exactly where the clips were placed either.

**Mumof8** · September 16th, 2007, 07:38 PM

Same same FRAM mine didn't say anything about how long they were.
Onemore my heart goes out to you darl. That must have been a very big decision to make. I hope hubby and you can get back on track, and who knows what the future may bring you both. I could never do what you are doing cause i would always feel something missing from my life.Take care.
Hey Ang long time no see. What have you been up to???Hows the new house???? Any news on your next step??? Did you take that new job???
Hey everyone...Me im still feeling sick only in the afternoons tho and heaps sleepy. I got a few things for the baby this weekend, i just couldn't help myself.
Take care girls XXX

**mrsjac** · September 17th, 2007, 07:11 AM

dh and myself went down the coast for the weekend. without kids!! and it was so peacefull. couldn't do anything though cause that witch af come. my dh ex being a smart a@# rang. while we were sleeping. i hate her so much!.... anyway i went and brought a ovulation kit. and i finished af yesterday so i don't know when to test. any help would be greatly appriciated..... thanks!

**Mumof8** · September 17th, 2007, 09:34 AM

Hey Dea i started testing 9 to 10 days from the time my period started.

**storm** · September 17th, 2007, 10:53 AM

Kristy, I wish you all the best & I hope things work out for you & your DH. Make sure you do pop in for a chat OK?

Yay for the weekend away Dea!! But grrrrr at the X how rude!! I too would start testing around 9 - 10 day too good luck.

Going to give Maz a big shove in this direction!!!!!

**maz** · September 17th, 2007, 06:37 PM

*Maz is ducking fo rcover*
I am so sorry girls - I have bl00dy busy and have let time slip away. thank god for our beloved Storm.
sunshine is a girl!!! Woo Hoo. We are all over the moon but havent told RL family and friends (only a very selected few)
I hope eveyrone is well and fine....Ive got some sticking their dame feet into my ribs ATM...not very comfortable but being the last pg for me...well doesnt matter. Have found out that my placenta is right at the front...hope that changes before the 8th of Jan for my c/s. Have been told not to go anywere in December due to my early labour troubles....I might copy Storm and have a christmas baby..pmsl...nah I'll go the New Years option.
Ok going to have a shower...cause me stinky!!!!!!!

**luvchildren** · September 17th, 2007, 08:17 PM

Kristy- you must be feeling heaps atm... i feel for you and understand... do you work or study or stay home with you beautiful boys?
em, sorry about the sickness....... hope it clears up must be the twosome..... giving you all those hormones.... so happy for you mate.... when do you get to have a scan? I have actually lost a child.. don't panic just older boy has made choice to try live with his father. i tried to let him know that it won't turn out like he expects.. but i want him to make the choice not me. he's 13 so i let him go. his father has never had any of the older three children stay there more than 2 weeks.... but that was all three. the two girls have stayed with me.. almost finished this semester at uni.....yeh so had enough!!!! oh get to do practical at aged care... so looking forward to it!
fram, yeh i was told the length of you tubes matter, but mostly clips are put at the isthmus (middle) of the tubes. i also had mine under lap like mum of 5.. make sure you do some research and look up as much info as you can..... be informed about what is being done to you and how they intend to do it.... don't be afraid its your bodyxxxx hope it works out!
maz, so so so so so so so so so so cute!!!!!!!! love the pic do you keep a journal? i wish i had kept a journal when i was preg. hows the rest of the family? do you know what your having?
storm, hows the baby making ???????? doing some interesting stuff to get a squiggly?
nothing happening with me.... just uni! and im so over that... and looking forward to a big 4 month break...

**storm** · September 17th, 2007, 08:42 PM

Em, Dylan went off to wa to stay with his dad, what a nightmare!!! Seems like a similar situation to you.Hmmm what interesting stuff would that be roflmao????????????

Well it's about time you popped in maz.I will be jinxing you, like you did me & day that you'll have her on xmas day too!!!!!!
** storm is now ducking for cover**

framaine · September 18th, 2007, 11:22 AM

Hi everyone, hope you are all well.
Thanks to you all for the info.
More research i will do for sure. As if i haven't done heaps already.......
luvchildren, i hear where you are coming from, as you will see further down i have what i call the modern day brady bunch.
And i gotta tell ya, it is the hardest thing i have ever done in my life.
I too, have a son that lives with his father, the only difference for me, he is my youngest, just turned 8. And we live nearly 600kms apart. We have only seen each other thanks to school and work committments, twice this year so far.
But for me, it doesn't stop there.
My dh's daughter (15) and i don't get along at all, as well as myself and the dreaded ex wife. It got to the point where my step daughter doesn't come to see us at all and has no contact whatsoever with us. But..... Her mum does. Just yesterday she called my dh and told him that step daughter has just come out and said that she, at the age of 15 thinks she is gay....
For me, not so shocking, i had my ideas on that. My dh doesn't care, he just misses her and wants her back. But her mother is going off her dial. She hates the idea and says she will do all she can to stop it. That poor girl. As if life isn't going to be hard enough for her if this is the life she has chosen for herself, but to not have your mum's support......
I guess it just goes to show, we all out there have a story to tell and we are all linked in some way. Allbeit some of the strangest ways....
Only 13 more sleeps till our first appointment in melb about a reversal. I can't wait but am also so nervous at the same time.
Any way, i'm off for now.
Have a great day everyone.
framaine xoxoxox

**maz** · September 18th, 2007, 11:24 AM

Im so bummed
I went ot the chemist to get something for my sinus cause their infected and my eye's are killing me...all I got were eye drops!!!! Im sick of yellow stuff IFYKWIM
AAAHHHH
NO JINXING ME!!!!!!!

**kiya** · September 18th, 2007, 11:33 AM

WOW.....boy did i have a lot of catching up to do. So many CONGRATS going out to all the ones that need it. I have been busy lately. My eldest son 16.5yrs has come home for the week, but a lot of planning went into it. Found out last night that he will be coming home for good at xmas. Not sure how that is going to go down, but hopefully things have changed and so has he. Still goign to go thru Westmead, just been put back on hold for a little while, but that is fine as i figure i don;t want to bring a new baby into a hostile home. Plus i also want to lose those kilos i gained from all those nights of wine & chips...LOL I so miss my size 10/12. I know they are still there somewhere in this body i just know it. A few more days of riding my horse and my thighs and butt will be firm again....LOL Better dash all......Cheers kiya

**mrsjac** · September 20th, 2007, 11:50 AM

thanks for the reply's mumof 5 and storm i appriciate i do the test tommorow . my mil had an operation to have a breast removed from cancer.going to see her this arvo. how is everyone else doing?