Tubal Reversals #10

**storm** · October 2nd, 2007, 05:58 PM

Omg Kiya, that is just awful. How disgusting.

**kiya** · October 2nd, 2007, 06:36 PM

exactly storm......i actually broke down and cried with dh tonight, because we so want another baby, and everything that i have gone through, and then her saying hoe she wished he was never here.....we have been watching our dd's 11 & 6yr's playing with our new pram and all the baby clothes and it was just so heartbreaking to both of us.....i know we will have our little baby :-)........Em. i hope everything is going ok with you and you are taking it easy and getting plenty of rest

**Mumof8** · October 2nd, 2007, 07:12 PM

Hi girls feeling pretty $hit really. I dont really know what to think or how to feel or what to do. I still have one baby but i just cant bring myself to be happy about that one at the moment. I feels so bad cause the one i still have should heal some of the hurt but it doesn't. It just doesn't feel real like bad things like this just don't happen to me and why me why my baby. The lady that did the scan said she measured something in the sac but doesnt know what it is or what will become of it. WTF. Why leave me hanging I just need a yes or a no straight out. I have had my last 3 scans at a private ultrasound place at windsor.Do I go back there so they can compare the past history and measurements so they can tell me straight out if its a No or a Yes. Do I get a second opinion do i leave it and see if its gone at the 12wks scan or if its made it. They never said its dead all the words were PROBABLY. My god i feel like my life has been put on hold again. I have 5 other kids to think of and its so hard trying to be sad and look after them at the same time. Do i hold out hope for baby B or do I just let go. God give me the will to get thru this.

**storm** · October 2nd, 2007, 08:58 PM

No No No Em, if they are not sure, go back & get a 2nd or even a 3rd opinion. Especially if there is some hope for the little one. Just because they said it MAY be doesn't mean that one is gone, it may be just a bit slower, I know Angel was, Besides if something has developed in the sac then all should not be lost.
I know still having 1 left doesn't change the fact that 1was (may be ) lost & i can only imagine how hard this is for you, but you've gotta keep strong. I really feel for you Em. & NO it's not bloody fair at all.
go & get yourself another scan somewhere else, perhaps with more skills that the Windsor one, & better equipment, if you went to the one near the salvo store then, yeah no wonder they are inconclusive results.

As for me, well AF turned up, all those + tests & all, not happy, but what can I do???? On to cycle3, with DH away building the extensions I dont think I have a chance, LOL, maybe I should wait till we are in our place first. But once I get to O time I cant help myself.

**Mumof8** · October 3rd, 2007, 07:22 AM

No yesterdays scan was done at Westmead hospital but all my other scans have been done at Sydney pregnancy & womens ultrasound services on George st. I think its next to a realestate and it has a rail along the front of the shops. DH said he doesn't trust hospitals he said you always hear of bad stories and them getting it wrong. When i had my scan there last week they rebooked me for this Thursday but i dont know if i should go or not or wait till my 12 week scan.
I think it will be abit hard with Dh away Storm hehehe

**kiya** · October 3rd, 2007, 07:45 AM

Em, please go and get a 2nd opinion from the other clinic. I had the same thing said to me about my last daughter, and she is still her and a fiery redhead to boot. I was getting scans practically every week from when i found out i was preg right up till she was 17 weeks. Finally we found out why i was havign them done, and i was asking everytime what was wrong and they would tell me and they always asked if i was having bleeding. It was found that right from the start i had a Grade 4 Placenta Previa, and i should not have carried to where i had. They wanted to deliver her at 24, 26,28 weeks. I always asked for 2 more weeks hence going up in 2's. I wanted to try and give her a chance. She was eventually delivered as a VBAC at 38weeks and had perfect aphgars. So you see Em, don't let them say MAYBE, go and find out for sure one way or the other, for Bubba B maybe just be growing a little slower and twins do that same as mine did. Go and do it, and i will be thinking of all 3 of you when you have it done. Kiya

**storm** · October 3rd, 2007, 10:56 AM

I had all Zac & Angel's done at Sydney women's, I found them to be fantastic.
Wow Kiya!! But you are right, never say never, our bodies & pregnancy are simply amazing!!
He he Em, was thinking about freezing it LOL!!! I'll just have to wait.

**Mumof8** · October 3rd, 2007, 12:47 PM

Turkey basting Storm

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I have decided to wait till my 12 week scan on the 30th of October and what will be will be. That way it will have given it plenty of time to grow or it will have given it time to go away. I'm to scared of what I may see if I go now cause it might not be nice.

**storm** · October 3rd, 2007, 02:12 PM

Probably the best thing to do Em. How far are you now? You need a ticker!!

**Mumof8** · October 3rd, 2007, 07:37 PM

I have a ticker thing cant you see it under all my stuff????That lilypie thing. Im 8wks 1day today

**maz** · October 3rd, 2007, 07:51 PM

no honey its only telling us were its at - you need to get the other code (I think the second one down)
I cant talk long...to much pain down stairs

**storm** · October 3rd, 2007, 07:59 PM

You need to do it as an image thing.[img] bla bla bla[img]
HIya Maz, you stranger. hope your feeling ok.apart from downstairs that is

**maz** · October 3rd, 2007, 08:04 PM

Tired mate and ive got so much to do still.
My little Muffet is in a big bed now so we can take downt he cot before bub comes. We thought it would be a good idea so she doesnt think that the new baby is taking her place eg her bed.
Got a bit of oain down there (pressure) and friggen braxton hicks...I swear yourve cursed me this time...I'll be going early you watch

**storm** · October 3rd, 2007, 08:08 PM

Oh the joys.
Great that Vy is in a bed too!
Hope you seriously don't think I cursed you

**maz** · October 3rd, 2007, 08:11 PM

Nah only pulling ya leg but I do have agut feeling that this baby will be a new years baby

**bernie** · October 4th, 2007, 07:21 AM

Well I went to melbourne and we got the green light the doc was great so now just counting down the days only 19 to go then 6 weeks off work

Em wishing you all the best & praying for happy news wishing there was something I could say to make it all better .

**Mumof8** · October 4th, 2007, 08:40 AM

Now can you see??? I was checking your ticker and maz and they just come up numbers but when you click on it it comes up. But if i log out then go into our thread they all are displayed,hmm weird