Thanks Kiya that was beautiful and all so very true. I would love to go and comfort her but it doesnt seem right I want to send flowers but that doesn't seem right either. These doctor's toy with our lives and play god abit to much for my liking these days. They told my neighbour at 28 wks that bub was very small only measuring 20wks and they would deliever her at 32wks cause babies seem to thrieve better in this situation outside of mum. All seemed fine after all that and bub was doing well. But they never did the c-section only to tell her if she made it to 36 wks they would do the c-section then to play it safe. I don't understand what happened and they didn't play it safe at all and now she has lost her miracle baby.