Dearmum....you can be MIA for as long as you want and need.....we will all be here when you return....i know it has been a hard slog with the FET's, but don't give up, not yet....If like you say both thaw out, get them put back in....it will if anything better your chances....wishing you the very best......bummer about your DD DF and not being able to get a loan for the wedding......things will work out there as well....i'm doing ok.....dad starts his treatment this Thursday....his oncologist wants to start him on a course of needles and tablets....she wants to hold off from the chemo on him for now as the option she is trying first has good results.....well time to go and make a cuppa.....hugs to all....kiya