Oh Becc, :hugs: You definitely do not seem self-centred! It isn't fair that you or anyone should lose a baby that is so wanted. It is incredibly unfair. You deserve happiness and you deserve to have that precious baby! Your thoughts and feelings are totally normal. I had similar thoughts too and after my 2nd m/c found myself totally bewildered and at a loss as to how we could lose two precious babies.

Please do keep in touch and let us know how you are going. Take care.

Angel.