Blighted Ovum - Misdiagnosed?

[Tobily]

Hi erybery, I'm sorry for your loss.
Thanks for your reply and sharing your story with me. I am going to my gp tonight to discuss what is to happen next. Ive read lots of stories that have had happy endings but I don't want to get my hopes up. But just to put my mind to rest I would like to have another scan. That way ill be sure I'm doing the right thing.

Grake - I'd really strongly encourage you to go for that second scan.

Regardless of the outcome ( and FWIW I think you may get a nice surprise) you need to know, down the line, that the pregnancy was definitely not viable.

I've had a blighted ovum (diagnosed at 7wks) and missed m/c at 10 weeks. With the blighted ovum, there was no change between scans and definitely no fetal pole. I think that a second scan is definitely worth doing in your case. If possible, request a transvaginal scan as they show alot more detail than abdominal scans for early pregnancies, particularly those that are a bit iffy.

All the best and I hope things work out for you.

[~Saram~]

Hon I went for a scan at 6wks and was dated 5wks - tech could not see any embryo etc but did an internal us and found fetal pole told us it could go either way - 2wks later there was bub bouncing away nice strong heart beat and he is now 6yo. I can understand not wanting to get your hopes up but thefre is no harm in waiting for the scan if there is a glimmer of hope. hang in there - hope you get some good news

[Sanchez]

Hi Girls and Grake

I agree with the girls that waiting for the scan is a good idea....may be a loooong week for you though!
Being so early in gestation, if you implanted later it may just be quite behind.

I had a BO last year - found out at 8 weeks though.

Good luck i will cross fingers and say a prayer

Sanchez

[mummy2chloe]

just wanted to check in to see how you are going??

dont really have much advise that the others havent already said, but its sort of got to give you hope when a fetal pole is visable!! you poor thing being in limbo land is the WORST thing ever!!! must be very stressful for you, one minute you have accepted that it might be all over and then to have it turn aroundand show a little hope. it must be very hard.

if you need to talk or want to vent we are always here for you

i have everything crossed that this will be a happy ending!!!! please let us know how you go

will be thinking of you

take care xxx

[Grake]

Hi everyone,

Thanks for all the good wishes and advice.

I've had another scan since then and it hasn't grown in the last 2.5 weeks. I was supposed to be 8.5 weeks by now, but the scan is still showing that I'm only 6w3d in size. The trans-vaginal scan showed the same thing. I've also had some bleeding and pretty bad cramps since. So I am going ahead with the d&c on Friday. I just want it to be over so we can try again.

Thanks again for the support.

xoxo

[Grake]

I think all the waiting has been killing me. And now knowing I have to wait to ttc again.

Is it wrong to feel jealous of others that are pregnant or have babies? It just seems some people find it so easy to get pregnant and do so with no issues.

[Sanchez]

Grake my emotions came out in anger. I was so angry that others had no problems, that people I thought didn't deserve to have children had no problems. I was jealous and angry for a while, i think until i got pregnant again and once i knew that everything looked ok.....then the negative emotions went away.

Honey it is only natural to feel you have been robbed of something so may others have.

All the best for Friday, I was so upset when i went in for my d & c, the realisation that my dream was truely over.
Make sure your DH looks after you, I will say a prayer you have a quick road to the next pregnancy.

xx