Grake my emotions came out in anger. I was so angry that others had no problems, that people I thought didn't deserve to have children had no problems. I was jealous and angry for a while, i think until i got pregnant again and once i knew that everything looked ok.....then the negative emotions went away.
Honey it is only natural to feel you have been robbed of something so may others have.
All the best for Friday, I was so upset when i went in for my d & c, the realisation that my dream was truely over.
Make sure your DH looks after you, I will say a prayer you have a quick road to the next pregnancy.
I am so sorry to hear you are having to go through this. I have also had a blighted ovum resulting in a d&c at 8 weeks. It is absolutely normal for you to feel angry, upset and envious of people who fall pregnant very easily. These are all very normal feelings.
Please take care of yourself and allow yourself time to heal.
Sanchez that's exactly how I feel now. At first I was just upset & now I feel angry. I think I'll probably feel like you did after the d&c. Luckily I have DH to support me
I've had a blighted ovum (diagnosed at 7wks) and missed m/c at 10 weeks. With the blighted ovum, there was no change between scans and definitely no fetal pole. I think that a second scan is definitely worth doing in your case. If possible, request a transvaginal scan as they show alot more detail than abdominal scans for early pregnancies, particularly those that are a bit iffy.
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I am so sorry to hear you are having to go through this. I have also had a blighted ovum resulting in a d&c at 8 weeks. It is absolutely normal for you to feel angry, upset and envious of people who fall pregnant very easily. These are all very normal feelings. 
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