Lissy, I can really relate to this post. I too have a close friend who has been really distant, and even a little irritable on the few occasions I've spoken to her. I got very upset, as I thought she would understand the most, having been through it herself. Another close friend who also had a mc was the same. Mum thinks maybe it is just too painful for them to remember. It is terribly hard for you when you need love and support to get you through such a sad sad time. I'm so sorry - you don't need it on top of all your other pain.

Alice x