Oh SM i am so sorry for you loss! I would always go to westmead as its where the bigger better facilities are!

I had a D&C at 12weeks for a missed MC. It was terrible, sorry but honest.

I had to have a 2nd D&C about 3 weeks later and it was fine...but they ruptured my uterus....

BUT why i have told you these horrid things is to say that i went on to fall pregnant again easily and quickly and have had three healthy bubs since. So try not to worry about the side effects if you choose to go down that path....

Honestly...not sure whatid choose if i was there again.....

Sending you much strength and love!
be kind to yourself!