Oh Sazz, it doesn't matter what the rules are for categorising your little emby. What you feel is what counts. Your heart was so happy for a few days, and a little in your sig is your way of acknowledging your loss, no matter when it was.

FWIW I didn't have a 'proper miscarriage' either, but I still think about what would have been.

I am keeping you in my thoughts at the moment. I read your other post about yelling at Celeste - you are going throu lots at the moment with so many conflicting emotions. Don't try to get over it sooner than you need to heal.

big hugs sazz.