I had an early miscarriage recently too Sazz and my DP reacted similarly to your DH and I was very disappointed in him.

I think he somehow thinks I'm exaggerating or turning it unnecessarily into a bigger deal that I should be when I call it a "miscarriage".

To me, it doesn't matter what the scientific terminology is - it's more that for a few days I thought I was pregnant and had started thinking about baby names and all that nice stuff that comes with being pregnant. It's hard to come to terms with suddenly losing all that excitement - no matter how early it is.