Deb - I think it is so lovely that your OB was able to tell that Eggbert was actually your little girl. I havent had an early loss so I dont know from experience, but I imagine it must be difficult to always wonder about such things, I know I was desperately curious from day 1. I understand what you mean by the frustration of having no answers, its hard to be told "its just one of those things". I hope you do have a healthy bub in your arms in the near future.

Take care, Mel