Nikki

So sorry to hear of you loss. It is a very difficult time not matter what way it goes. I wanted to m/c naturally and have done for most of ours as like you I wanted to be able to let go myself, I think this was an emotional process of letting myself say goodbye and saying to that little soul that I was letting go and it was time for it to pass. Our last m/c I did have to have a d & c as I had excessive bleeding. I hate hospitals ( even though I work in one) so it was awful, I wanted my grief to be private, but it was over quite quickly and I only bled for 2 days after the d&c. I guess the emptiness just felt more sudden, but it does have its good points in that the physical process is over so much more quickly. I think you will know what you need to do, trust your intuition. I hope that your body decides for you and when you are ready it will happen. I wish you great strength over the next few days. Let yourself grieve for the loss of your little one. Sending you huge :hugs: and hoping every day gets easier.