Nikki,
I really feel for you, this is such a heartbreaking thing to go through.
As far as natural m/c or D&C you really need to do what ever you feel is right for you unless the doc's decide that there is a reason to intervene.
Stand up for what you want and don't feel pressured one way or the other.
I hope you have lots of support to get you through this awful time.
Please come and talk to us in the TTC afterm/c or loss thread when you are ready. We all know how you feel.
Sending you heaps of :hugs:
Layla